TONI Episode 61 | Ms. Gloria Diaz Shares How She Raised Her Daughter Belle Daza
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Happy birthday to you!
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Happy birthday to you!
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Happy birthday to you!
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And a soon-to-be mother of three, Isabel Daza!
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Hi, Tomy! Parang kailan lang?
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Parang kailan lang!
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I was here, but I love your studio.
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It's so beautiful.
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I remember, Miss Gloria,
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nung nag-usap kami,
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tapos nakuwento siya about you.
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Ano may gire-request?
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Kasi parang natutuwa sila sa dynamics niyong mag-ina.
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Kasi pinaprank mo rin ang mami mo!
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Marami na, marami.
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Lahat ako kay Miss Gloria!
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Parang, oh, the Miss Universe!
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Pero yung ginagawa mo sa mami mo.
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No, Belle is exactly like her father.
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yung he can think of the most amazing jokes
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on people, you know?
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And you will be surprised.
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Siya talagang pinaka-game na game talagang
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he will go all the way.
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Like Belle will go all the way
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for a costume party.
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Ganun talaga siya.
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But I have this other prep
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na hindi ko pa nagagawa sa kanya.
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Feeling ko baka matak sa puso or something.
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My heart is well.
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I need a medic there.
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So sabi ko, okay, next time na
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when I'm not pregnant.
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Hindi kasi may vlog kayo,
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hindi maka-get over si Miss Gloria.
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Yung how many men?
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Did you sleep with?
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Parang grabe naman.
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Who knows mother best?
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Busy parang call center.
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Hindi siya maka-get over sa sagot mo.
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Siyempre, she's old na so I was like,
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Grabe naman yung count.
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She's conservative.
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Okay, sabihin mo na at 20 o 21, okay,
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Pero jino-joke mo yun, no?
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Yeah, I was just kidding.
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I was just kidding.
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Pini-pressure ko lang ka.
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One time we did unboxing
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tapos kaya pala may
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tao sa loob ng box.
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May gis daw siya sa akin.
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We have it on video.
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Okay, that's at Frank.
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Binuksan niya with cutter.
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Buntik na niya sa akin.
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buto nakahelmet si Frank.
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Good thing he was in a helmet.
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With that Electrolux, right?
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No, another time ganito, okay?
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More, more emotional.
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I have a lot, a lot.
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On Christmas day,
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Belle has no gift for me.
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I feel so sad naman.
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Wala siyang gift sa akin.
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And then, tapos do you remember?
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may kung ano dyan or whatever.
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Pero when I lifted it,
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When I opened it,
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that was the key of the car.
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I got so emotional,
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Siyempre, that's a prank
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because it's a box na walang laman
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and then the key of the car.
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Yung dynamics niyong
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mother and daughter,
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how would you describe?
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How would you describe it, Ma?
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I think si Belle, she knows
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I'm of a certain opinion
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hers is really sa liwa
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or rather contradictory.
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I really believe in something,
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and then she does what she wants.
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It's got nothing to do
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with what I want.
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Basta hindi lang kami
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or really ganyan.
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Ma'am, ganito ganyan.
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But Belle is very mababaglu ka.
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If I really get mad,
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But then she always says
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sorry naman to me
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because I'm always right.
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She's always right.
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Ayan na siya na nag-claim.
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She's always right.
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make tampuhan naman,
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my mom's assistant,
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will explain our side.
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Tas siya yung media.
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Tas one or the other
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will reach out with.
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And then I realize,
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because especially
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she lives abroad,
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I'm always trying to tell myself,
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siyempre they have children,
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I have many opinions,
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even about their children.
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overexposed sa nature.
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I always tell her.
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May overexposure pa sa nature!
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Di sa TV and social media.
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kids should only be outside
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for about maximum
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I don't want yung masyadong
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damig ang kwarto.
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ang dami niyang ano.
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number one niyan.
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Ayaw niya mag-swimming
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Dapat 30 minutes lang
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para hindi magkasipud.
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they never were sick.
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The only time Belle
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That day pa naman,
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She fell off a horse
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and broke her arm.
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You're very protective.
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before anything goes wrong,
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May mga langgam diyan,
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I think the new way is
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you let them find out.
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If they stand on the table,
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They never get sick.
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The three of them,
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Kasi they have to sleep
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Ngayon the children,
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certain way and pattern
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kung paano pinalalaki
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Kasi kinuwinto sa akin ni Bill,
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pagdaw nasa restaurants,
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umorder ng mahal na drinks
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Talagang hindi pwedeng drinks,
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Because you can have
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but with the father,
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fresh orange juice,
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bigla mo siyang dobel.
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allowed to order drinks?
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Eh, yaman naman po kayo,
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you buy the oranges
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or you squeeze oranges.
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There were rules.
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Unless there are three people.
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Dapat may three people
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at least in a room.
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Pero pag mag-isa lang,
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hindi kami natutog with aircon
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or if may aircon,
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gigising siya at midnight
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So pag gigising naman sa umaga,
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I'm like sweating.
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kasi pag the car's going one way,
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Para isang puntahan lang ng kotse,
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One of my biggest anger with her,
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nasa Quezon City siya
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and then pinabalik daw niya yung kotse
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kasi yung favorite lip gloss niya,
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nakalimutan niya.
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Ay, nagalit po kayo.
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Ginagawa mong taxi yung kotse ka.
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Wala pang grab-grab noon,
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But my mom's very practical.
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And driver ko napagod.
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Talagang very concerned po.
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Hindi iba talaga yung style
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ng parenting noon.
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I try to still have discipline
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naman with my kids.
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Kaso mas free ako,
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they can go to the nature.
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But my mom's very like,
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insect repellent,
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palitan ng shirt.
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Siyempre, parang di nagkakasakit.
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I feel so bad when I see the kids sick.
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I'm sure yung mommy mo,
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mommy Pinty's also like that
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Yes, may mga certain ways sila
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No, but Belle is a good mama
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because talagang she likes the food properly
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her children are really into fruits.
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But now, I'm telling her,
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ang fruits kailangan slightly limited
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kasi that's sugar.
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Paano nyo po dinidisiplina si Belle
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Nakaranas po ba sila ng palo?
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One time lang si Ava,
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she arrived very late.
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I pulled her hair.
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Oh my God, that was so scary.
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I pulled her hair.
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As in isang bunot?
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Hindi, isang ganon.
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And then sabi niya,
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get a hold of yourself,
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you're getting violent.
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Sabi niya, I'm violent.
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Ah, hindi nyo po sila
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pinalu nung bata.
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So paano nyo po sila tinuturo
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at dinidisiplina?
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Kasi takot sila sa inyo.
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Mabait naman sila eh.
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They were doing it
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or maybe doing it behind my back.
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you never would give us
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what we asked for.
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no, I mean in a good way
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kasi pangyari if I,
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if my friends always had
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all a new bike and stuff,
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parang Christmas,
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we'll wait for Christmas.
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I already told Belle,
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and your children have so many toys,
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you only open one gift a day.
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So parang what she does is
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tinatago niya lahat ng mga gifts
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or minsan two days.
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When you wake up in the morning,
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So hindi pwede everything.
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when all the gifts are open,
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you choose two gifts
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and the rest you give away.
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Sa inyo po nakuha
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yung ganyang style ng parenting?
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I just realized that
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they are very kwan eh.
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Parang it's so easy to buy.
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It's harder to say,
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I always tell her,
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it's harder to say no
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Diba when the children
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wanna do something?
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It's harder to say no
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kasi nakakapagod makipag-argue
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Yan yung sinabi mo
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ng last interview.
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Ngayon mo naiintindihan.
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Ngayon ko lang naiintindihan
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kasi syempre with Balti,
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please can I watch iPad more?
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Syempre I want my time.
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I wanna go online and stuff
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pero I'm like okay, no.
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I super understand what she means
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kasi I think in the long run,
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nakakatulong siya
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in developing contentment.
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I think a lot of children grow up,
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children who don't have boundaries
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and children who get everything
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they want when they're young,
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we think that it's, you know,
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giving them everything
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but when they grow up,
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they become very unhappy
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because they don't really know
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what actually makes them happy
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when they have everything.
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We only had one TV in my room
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para I can control the TV
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and I can be with them
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at the same time.
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I had such a deprived childhood
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now that I'm thinking about it.
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parte niyo lang ang TV
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so that she can watch,
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they can be there beside me
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kasi if they each have a TV,
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nobody will bother with being with you,
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You're so strict.
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Hindi naman strict,
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basta gusto ko doon lang.
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Na-strict mong mami mo nung bata ka?
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No, hindi ko na-feel yun.
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Kala niya normal yun.
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I was like normal lang
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when I would go to my friend's house,
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I was studying sa Assumption nun.
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Sige, like kunyari,
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mag-o-order sila ng Taco Bell
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What do you want?
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Ah, ikaw nagugulat?
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So parang when I go to her,
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my friends have this,
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my friends, diba,
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it's natural to compare.
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well, that's your friend,
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So parang okay, fine.
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Pero we got sanay na
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to be like that in our family.
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Simple lang, diba?
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Do not have instant gratification.
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sige, isipin mo muna.
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Eh, never naman tayo nang go back,
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Hindi, kasi diba,
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ganon po yung mga mami
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parang usually ang mami
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Or you wanna give your child everything.
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The father was a spoiler.
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Yeah, the father.
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Sometimes they would go to Lipa,
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and then pagbalik,
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sabi niya, nahulog,
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Papa bought us all
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these motorcycles,
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Bakit magmamotorcycles
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Tatlong motorcycle.
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na all the scooters,
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Kasi Bong was a spoiler.
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He was also very spoiled, eh.
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So, kayo ang parang
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naging disciplinarian,
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Well, yes and no,
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her yaya was also
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quite strict, no?
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Yaya Linning, yeah.
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kailangang bumili ng damit.
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Kasi anak daw sila
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yung itatinop ko, eh.
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Yaya, pumunta ka na lang
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yung mga fake jeans.
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malalaman ng tao yan.
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nalaloka with her.
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Sobrang tipid niyo po,
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Hindi naman tipid,
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They were growing,
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I would buy expensive shoes
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always good food.
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bumibili ng bagong damit.
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Miss Gloria Diaz.
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Anak ng Miss Universe.
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pupunta sa party.
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make avayus na lang
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alam niya ng mga yaya.
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Ayaw niya mga hand-me-down
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Pero ang galing na,
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kasi hindi alam niya ng mga tao
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na si Miss Gloria Diaz pala.
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you're an actress,
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you became the Miss Universe.
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You're used to the glitz and glam.
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kung hindi talagang in control.
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I was always shooting.
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why can't you be like other mommies?
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when they come home,
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just buy the cookies there.
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I'm shooting here.
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Kasi she always says,
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how come you're never home?
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they have baking cookies daw.
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baking cookies niya.
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you're a working mom.
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it's not a normal thing,
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Why don't you ever
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I feel like you cooked a lot
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when I started movies,
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and when they were young,
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our movies were sunod-sunod,
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Those were the golden years
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when I'm at home,
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kasi tumatak yung mga lecture
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ng mommy mo sa inyo.
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more than saying it,
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what's important is
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children won't listen
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they will watch what you do.
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nung may mga naliligaw na
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they're making ligaw.
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I thought they just
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wanna be friends.
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they were friends,
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Bell was a tomboy.
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Ang mga siguro naliligaw
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or trying to be close
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were mga kabasketball niya.
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when I was dating
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boyfriend ko siya,
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siguro mga three years na
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I remember one time,
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we went to a dinner,
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this is her special friend,
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he's my boyfriend.
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And then marriage,
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what did you say?
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Adrian wants to meet
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with you, mama, ha?
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baka mang-utang to.
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Bakit naman utang
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agad ang naisip mo,
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Why naman will he
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want to meet with me?
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I just want to talk to you.
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but be here na lang,
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I said like that.
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I told also Mike.
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I want to tell you
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Isabel for her hand
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one of these days,
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she'll want to get married.
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it is not one of these days.
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I'm not yet ready.
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I'm not ready pa,
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chinake niya ako.
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he's not asking you.
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it's not you he's asking.
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He doesn't want to get married to you.
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Isabel is still too young.
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I said like that.
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I had two kids pa,
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three plus Rafael.
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Kailan taong ka ba nun?
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We got engaged 28.
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That's 29 na ganyan.
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She has the time.
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Talagang ayaw niya.
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Kawawa si Adrian.
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I said like that,
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but I want to have children
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and just like that.
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I don't want to be an old man
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but na-confuse ako
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kasi that's the last thing
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that he wants to get married
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I want to get married now.
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yung usapan niyo?
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mabait naman ni Adrian.
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but don't forget,
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I like you very much.
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ever have a fight,
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I'm on your side.
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I think he's still surprised
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I'm on your side.
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she's really difficult.
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to get married to her?
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She's so difficult.
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sinirahan mo yung alak niya?
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She's so difficult.
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he's so difficult.
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She's very bossy.
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she's very bossy.
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pag nag-aaway sila,
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kampi kayo sa kanya?
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Kampi kay Adrian?
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sometimes when she complains
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that he stays in the office
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Everything he does
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pag pinapanoodan siya?
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Naawa nga ako sa kanya eh.
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she was gonna fly
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on I don't know where,
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yung isa nakasampa dito,
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yung isa mag-garga-garga niya.
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I had like all this luggage,
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And then she upgraded me,
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Sinabi rin ni Alex yan,
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sosyal lang si Belle,
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when she travels,
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nage-economy siya.
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Sobra niyang practical.
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Lalo na Hong Kong,
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kasi one hour and a half lang.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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that's against her will.
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Yeah, it's against,
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siyempre gusto ko rin.
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Especially when dala-dala niya.
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But that's not the worst.
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Ay, meron kong worst.
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Luning doesn't want to fly.
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pumunta kami ni Luning
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we were in a hotel
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and then we put her in a hotel
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together with Paul.
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Sinama ko lang siya
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doon pag shopping.
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we had to move her to our hotel.
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Hindi daw siya kumain.
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Hindi daw siya kumain
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Para kaming tinapon
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yung relationship niyo
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with Yaya Luning?
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Kasi parang siyang
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naging second mom.
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Of course, of course.
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Okay, okay si Yaya.
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the one time si mom,
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she was shouting.
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Napagalitan niya lahat.
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ang ingay-ingay mo.
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Then mom went in the room.
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my voice is so loud.
20:28.0
Parang napahiya siya.
20:30.0
napakwayet na lang siya.
20:31.0
No, entitled si Yaya.
20:35.0
Pero mabait si Yaya.
20:36.0
Pero partner siya talaga
20:38.0
Pero ano yung nakita nyo po
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na ginagawa nyo sa anak niya
20:43.0
Meron po ba kayo nakita?
20:44.0
No, she's a better mother
20:45.0
because she's really
20:49.0
they change the diaper,
20:52.0
So she's a better mother
20:54.0
because she really,
20:57.0
brings them to the park,
21:00.0
I think I only brought them
21:01.0
to the park during Halloween,
21:04.0
Kasi you're busy po.
21:06.0
I'm a hands-on grandmother.
21:07.0
Oh, paano siya as a lola?
21:10.0
I want to give them
21:12.0
that I did not do for them.
21:15.0
Kabalik tara naman.
21:17.0
Ganun na ba yung mga
21:19.0
Ayaw mag-toothbrush,
21:24.0
Hindi pwede sa magulang yun.
21:25.0
Pat toothbrush kayo
21:26.0
dahil makakaproblema tayo
21:29.0
Kayo po, okay lang,
21:30.0
ayaw mag-toothbrush?
21:31.0
Okay, bahala kayo
21:32.0
as the grandkids.
21:36.0
They would come to my
21:39.0
After, in the morning,
21:41.0
malalaki na sila.
21:42.0
Siguro mga 10, 11, 12,
21:44.0
they come in the morning to me
21:46.0
and I put my finger in their mouth.
21:49.0
go back, toothbrush again.
21:51.0
That means they did brush well.
21:55.0
pag nag-aaway kami,
21:57.0
don't be so mayabang to me,
21:58.0
I paid for your teeth.
22:01.0
I was willing to pay back
22:03.0
Anong dating na yun?
22:08.0
May ganon ba kayong
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away ng mami mo na like,
22:10.0
you didn't talk for a week,
22:11.0
you didn't talk with her.
22:14.0
when we did the ad,
22:17.0
She went to my rogue cover
22:19.0
and she screamed at everyone.
22:21.0
Umirap siya sa'yo, sabi niyo.
22:22.0
Naalala niyo yung away niyo.
22:24.0
She screamed at everyone
22:25.0
and then the next day,
22:27.0
We had to do an ad together
22:29.0
where she's so loving,
22:34.0
And then when the director cut,
22:36.0
hindi kami nagsasalita.
22:38.0
Separate dressing rooms talaga.
22:42.0
Paano nare-resolve yung mga conflicts na ganon
22:43.0
pag nagkakatampuhan?
22:45.0
just a little bit of space
22:46.0
and then okay na.
22:48.0
Little bit of space
22:49.0
and then my mom usually
22:50.0
She always apologizes.
22:52.0
Magpapadala siya ng fruit sa akin.
23:03.0
But that time was really strange
23:06.0
why we were in separate
23:09.0
Hindi po kayo nagusap mong shoot.
23:12.0
Kasi the day before nga,
23:13.0
nagkagulo nga kami eh.
23:14.0
Bakit po kayo nagkagulo sa room
23:16.0
Kasi I was nakapanti.
23:19.0
Ang daming lalaki.
23:20.0
And then ang daming kasi nga.
23:22.0
Tapos dumating po kayo.
23:25.0
it was God sent talaga
23:26.0
kasi natapos ang shooting
23:28.0
I called Yaya Luning.
23:31.0
paano na ang shooting nyo?
23:33.0
pumunta na lang kayo dito.
23:40.0
nashack talaga ako.
23:41.0
Bakit ano po nakita nyo
23:42.0
nun dumating kayo?
23:45.0
syempre we're shooting
23:46.0
pero the makeup artist kasi
23:50.0
so there were a lot of men
23:56.0
No, parang I was,
23:57.0
I had like a super skimpy top.
24:01.0
na meron ditong tela,
24:02.0
meron ditong tela.
24:03.0
Parang ito's ganoon.
24:04.0
Ito's sexy, sexy.
24:05.0
She screamed at the photographer,
24:09.0
sumudaw po kayo dun sa set?
24:12.0
that's my daughter.
24:14.0
pinagbababato ko sila.
24:16.0
sabi pa niya sa akin,
24:17.0
of all the people,
24:18.0
the original bold star
24:20.0
Sabi pa niya sa akin.
24:22.0
sinabi po sa inyo,
24:23.0
sinabi po sa inyo.
24:24.0
Kasi meron siyang
24:33.0
You are judging me?
24:36.0
nabalikan po kayo.
24:37.0
Times were different.
24:39.0
times are the same.
24:43.0
Parang ganoon-ganoon lang.
24:47.0
syempre protective.
24:48.0
I understand her naman.
24:51.0
when she went in,
25:01.0
when she came in,
25:04.0
this is what I have to deal with.
25:05.0
And I just let her.
25:07.0
only after Prenosis,
25:08.0
because I wanted to finish the shoot.
25:10.0
nag-sorry din ako sa
25:12.0
the photographer.
25:15.0
But they were very gracious.
25:18.0
I had to deal with it after
25:19.0
kasi I would see it in
25:20.0
all the comedy shows.
25:26.0
blah, blah, blah.
25:28.0
titiisin ko na lang ito.
25:29.0
I will not say anything
25:30.0
para hindi lang lumaki.
25:36.0
May naka-corona pa ako doon,
25:37.0
naka-baiting suit.
25:43.0
you did not know that,
25:46.0
they were probably
25:47.0
spoofing it or something.
25:50.0
May nabasa akong quote,
25:51.0
ewan ko kung makakarelate ka.
25:54.0
sinend ko sa mommy ko
25:55.0
kasi nakasulad doon,
25:56.0
my mother comes out.
25:59.0
Tawang tawa ako doon.
26:01.0
kasi minsan pag pinapagalitan ko
26:04.0
Minsan may mga lumalabas
26:05.0
ay, mommy ko yun.
26:06.0
Parang mommy ko yung nagsalita.
26:11.0
my mom would say,
26:12.0
ang mahal ng milk
26:14.0
and this and that.
26:15.0
And then I'm like,
26:18.0
Just now that I'm
26:19.0
gonna have three kids,
26:20.0
that's exactly what I say.
26:21.0
Why do we have to buy
26:22.0
three more lemons?
26:26.0
Everything is bilang.
26:30.0
na-fulfill ko na yung
26:31.0
sinasabi ng mom ko.
26:32.0
May rules kasi kami sa bahay
26:34.0
na in the beginning,
26:35.0
hindi din nagigets nang,
26:37.0
I'm sure you have rules
26:45.0
Nung bagong kasal po kami,
26:46.0
ang mga parents ko,
26:47.0
siyempre inisip nila,
26:48.0
ah, bahay naman ang anak ko yan.
26:49.0
Minsan dadating 9pm,
26:57.0
ang gusto namin ni Paul,
26:58.0
no visitors na para
27:00.0
Thank God you're not my daughter.
27:01.0
Ganyan din po sinabi ng mom ko.
27:04.0
Parang one month kami
27:05.0
hindi nakapag-usap noon.
27:06.0
Nag-sorry talaga ako.
27:07.0
Na-offend talaga sila.
27:09.0
Super na-offend sila.
27:10.0
Ay, yung kinweto sa akin ni Alex,
27:11.0
yung parang sabi ni Sevi,
27:14.0
We have rules in the house.
27:16.0
Tos Sevi turned around,
27:18.0
bustos nating bata.
27:21.0
Bustos tong bata na mama
27:26.0
I think kasi when you get older,
27:27.0
you have to put a boundary din
27:29.0
on what your family structure is.
27:31.0
What's your boundary to me?
27:33.0
Anong boundary kay Miss?
27:34.0
One time, I remember,
27:35.0
we were in the house
27:37.0
and then si Adrian,
27:38.0
he wasn't dressed yet.
27:40.0
Tos my mom jumped on our bed.
27:41.0
Tos para si Adrian,
27:44.0
Mom, you can't get in our bed
27:47.0
I'm here to see my Balti.
27:49.0
She's always there naman
27:52.0
What makes you naman think
27:53.0
I wanted to see you guys?
27:55.0
I'm only there for Balti
27:58.0
So, she's always there
27:59.0
to be with the kids.
28:02.0
I have no boundaries.
28:03.0
Wala talaga siyang boundaries.
28:05.0
So, di mo binibigyan ng role
28:06.0
si Miss Gloria na
28:07.0
Mom, huwag mo ganito,
28:11.0
in the kitchen sometimes,
28:13.0
magluto kayo ng ganito.
28:15.0
I don't want to eat that.
28:16.0
She has her own feeling
28:17.0
when she comes to my house.
28:19.0
it's also her house.
28:20.0
So, she'll make paluto.
28:23.0
because almost all the equipment
28:24.0
there belongs to me.
28:28.0
tapos pinamumukha niya sa akin.
28:30.0
I gave you the rice cooker.
28:31.0
Ah, talaga lahat po
28:32.0
ng kasirola sa inyo?
28:34.0
when they were living in Bel Air.
28:36.0
why will they buy naman niyo?
28:38.0
No, because she's always like,
28:40.0
I'll give you mine.
28:43.0
Pag nandun na sa house,
28:48.0
pumupunta ka sa bahay ng mami mo
28:49.0
tapos may mga kinukuha ka?
28:51.0
Tapos sililipat mo
28:54.0
and stuff like that.
28:55.0
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
28:56.0
So, parang feeling ko,
28:59.0
I guess when they get older,
29:00.0
the children are bigger.
29:02.0
I'll feel like a visitor.
29:03.0
Even in Ava's house,
29:04.0
I don't feel like a visitor.
29:06.0
At home, not far.
29:08.0
Isa pa yan sa bahay ni Ava.
29:13.0
nanginginig ako dito sa lamig.
29:14.0
You can close that.
29:17.0
She always thinks we're going to
29:18.0
ask money from her
29:19.0
or borrow from her.
29:21.0
I don't want to pay for your bills.
29:22.0
For the electricity.
29:25.0
They all turned out to be well
29:28.0
And my sons-in-law are good.
29:31.0
what are you most grateful for
29:33.0
I think my mom taught me
29:34.0
a lot of practical things
29:41.0
And most especially,
29:43.0
I think I can turn to her
29:45.0
when I'm problematic.
29:47.0
We have an open relationship.
29:48.0
Sometimes it's too open
29:50.0
that we fight a lot.
29:52.0
But I would prefer it like that
29:53.0
because we're both very direct.
29:56.0
we don't beat around the bush.
29:58.0
If I feel this way,
30:00.0
you know you were so
30:01.0
mataray or bitchy or mean.
30:08.0
the last thing I learned from you is
30:10.0
always taking care of yourself.
30:13.0
putting yourself ahead
30:15.0
Kasi sometimes we give
30:16.0
everything to our kids.
30:17.0
Walang natitira sa atin.
30:18.0
So, my mom is very good at that.
30:20.0
I always tell her that.
30:21.0
Meron akong narinig na gano'n
30:23.0
from Ialavan's son.
30:25.0
Our job as mothers
30:26.0
is to fill our cup.
30:28.0
What's in the cup is ours.
30:30.0
What overflows is for you.
30:32.0
Remember that, Belle?
30:33.0
Yeah, that's so nice.
30:35.0
Yeah, and it's true
30:36.0
because it's hard to fill their cup
30:38.0
if you're not full.
30:40.0
Kailangan nang nakukuha nila
30:43.0
But ours has to be filled.
30:45.0
Especially as you get older.
30:46.0
We cannot keep on giving and giving.
30:49.0
nobody will love you
30:50.0
if you have nothing to give.
30:59.0
I think it also builds into you
31:01.0
Yeah, as a person.
31:02.0
You have confidence.
31:03.0
Kung ayaw nila sa'yo,
31:05.0
You can be on your own.
31:07.0
Yan ang mga lessons
31:09.0
Thank you very much
