00:56.1
Kanina pa ako tawag ng tawag sayo.
00:58.7
Alis-jis na ng gabi yun at pumunta ka pa talaga.
01:03.9
Di ba sabi ko huwag ka nang tumuloy pa?
01:06.7
Babe, alam mo may isang scene doon ang sabi ng karakter,
01:10.9
Nothing is impossible. The word itself says, I'm possible.
01:16.8
Alam mo, tumatak yun sa akin.
01:19.8
Wala akong paki dyan sa mga cheesy quotes mo.
01:24.0
Nangako ka sa akin, Ada, na dito ka magdi-dinner, remember?
01:28.7
Nangintay ka nila, Mami, oh.
01:31.5
Babe, I'm sorry. Hindi ko naman sinasadya eh.
01:35.6
Alam mo, yung ADHD ko kasi minsan, nakakalimutan ko.
01:39.4
Nakakalimutan talaga ako eh. I'm sorry.
01:41.3
Lagi mo nalang dinadahilan niyang condition mo.
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I'm sorry, okay? I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
01:46.1
I really do prioritize our relationship.
01:49.2
Hindi ko talaga sinasadya, please.
01:53.5
Basta next time, just make sure na mag-a-alarm ka, ha?
01:57.1
Tsaka ilagay mo naman sa reminders.
01:58.7
Mo, please, love you.
02:01.6
Yay! I love you, babe. Tara!
02:05.1
Kainin na natin yung food sa kitchen.
02:18.0
Dear love, may mga times din na impulsive si Ada.
02:23.6
She doesn't think before she acts.
02:25.8
Kumbaga, she's always seeking for thrills and excitement.
02:30.8
And you know what annoys me the most?
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I'm always left to clean up after her mess.
02:48.1
Babe! You're here at my condo!
02:52.0
Anong nangyari, Ada?
02:55.8
Loko! Parang nagkaroon ng buhawi dito sa kondo mo.
03:00.6
Nakarating sa akin yung reklamo ng mga kapitbahay mo dito.
03:04.7
Eh, babe, hindi ko alam.
03:07.9
Sa totoo lang kasi parang nag-
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Alam mo yun, nag-blackout ako.
03:12.1
Ang dami naming nainim eh.
03:19.2
Nabasag mo yung ilaw, oh.
03:21.7
Pati yung TV dinamay mo.
03:24.5
At ang mas masakla,
03:25.7
napapinindot mo yung fire alarm ng buong building.
03:31.0
Ganyan ka ba talaga mag-party?
03:37.2
Yun nga lang, medyo nalasing kami na pa sobra.
03:40.3
Pero, actually, hindi ko maalala yung mga yan.
03:48.9
Eto, pumunta ako dito dahil sa tawag ng mga kapitbahay mo.
03:55.7
I am cleaning and dealing with the noise complains.
04:04.2
Ako naman yung humihingi ng sorry sa kanila eh.
04:07.0
Ako na, ako na hihingi.
04:08.6
Ada, think before you act, okay?
04:14.1
Don't just do whatever you want without thinking about the aftermath.
04:18.8
Babe, how many times do I have to tell you?
04:23.4
I need constant simulation.
04:30.8
You have that as an excuse again.
04:39.0
I appreciate this.
04:42.3
And I promise, I promise, I'll think before I act next time.
04:48.2
Sige na, pag na please.
04:55.7
Ayan, palibasa kasi alam mo kung paano kukunin yung kiliti ko.
05:03.4
Tsk, tsk, tsk, tsk!
05:16.0
Dear love, I hate it.
05:20.8
Nakaka-frustrate na kailangan kong maging pasensyoso at intindihin siya palagi.
05:25.3
Alam ko naman na hindi siya aware sa mga actions niya.
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Hindi ko nakakalimutan yun.
05:33.0
Pero nakakadalhin.
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Hindi ko alam kung anong version niya yung kaya kong mahalin.
05:39.6
Hindi ko alam kung kailan siya magiging hyper,
05:43.0
kung kailan siya magzazone out,
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o magiging unresponsive.
05:49.4
Kailangan kong paalalahanan lagi yung sarili ko na unawain at intindihin siya.
05:55.3
Kailangan ko pang pagpaliwanagan yung parents ko, yung friends,
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at most especially yung kapitbahay niya with regards to her condition,
06:06.4
and most especially on her behalf.
06:09.0
I really hate it because I constantly have to clean up after her messes.
06:15.6
Well, to be honest, Ada feels guilty about it.
06:19.4
She really knows how much her condition affects her.
06:22.0
And most importantly, our relationship.
06:26.3
At nakikita ko sa mga mata niya na nasasaktan din siya.
06:31.7
Hindi ko alam kung nakakainis ba yung condition niya
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o yung katotohanan na mahal ko siya ng buong puso kahit pa may ADHD siya.
06:42.4
Hindi ko siya kayang iwan.
06:46.2
Pero anong gagawin ko?
07:08.3
Babe, pwede ba tayong mag-usap?
07:16.4
Gusto ko lang mag-sorry about sa nangyari sa kondo.
07:21.9
Alam ko na ang hirap nang i-handle ng ADHD ko.
07:25.3
Hindi mo kailangang mag-sorry.
07:30.8
Ada, I still love you just the way you are.
07:36.0
Pero aware ako kung paano nito naa-apektohan yung relasyon natin, Kim.
07:41.0
But I am working on it, okay?
07:44.6
Look, Ada, alam ko naman na hindi ito madali.
07:50.0
Most especially for you.
07:53.3
Pero gusto kong malaman mo na kahit minun,
07:55.3
sa totoo lang kahit minsan, nakakapagod, nakakadrain,
08:04.0
nakaka-ubos na ng energy.
08:09.1
Kahit ganun, hindi pa rin ako susuko sa'yo.
08:14.1
Because that makes you.
08:16.7
And nung minahal kita,
08:19.9
nagsimula na rin akong tanggapin ka, even your flaws.
08:25.3
Pero there are times I feel like, I feel like I'm holding you back.
08:32.8
I chose to be with you, Ada.
08:37.0
Kim, I will make it up to you.
08:40.0
I promise I will do my best na hindi na magkukos ng worry or even harm itong kondisyon ko.
08:48.0
Babe, alam mo, even if you have those,
08:53.5
I hope na hindi mo rin makalimutan yung strengths mo.
09:08.8
At huwag mo kakalimutan na dahil sa qualities mo na yan,
09:14.3
kaya kita minahal ng lubusan.
09:19.6
Gusto rin kitang matulungan, Ada.
09:21.8
Gusto kitang makasama sa journey mo na ito, okay?
09:28.8
Tutulungan kita to schedule and sasamahan din kita sa mga workouts mo.
09:38.3
Ayoko naman na parang kailangan isacrifice mo yung oras mo para sa akin.
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Dahil gusto ko maging okay ka.
09:47.7
Especially yung relationship natin.
09:51.8
We'll make things work, Ada, okay?
09:54.6
That's how much I love you.
09:57.7
I love you, babe.
10:00.4
I'll always support you, okay?
10:06.2
Thank you for loving me despite of my flaws.
10:10.0
Sabi ko nga, diba?
10:11.9
That makes you, you.
10:14.1
I wouldn't change a thing.
10:17.8
Pero gusto mong bumawi?
10:21.8
Dito ka bumawi sa akin ngayon.
10:23.8
Kiss mo ko nang ikissin.
11:17.8
Nakikita ko ang mga struggles niya on a daily basis
11:22.4
Pero nangingibabaw ang determination niya to live with it
11:27.1
To handle it properly
11:29.2
Aaminin ko, maraming beses talagang sumasagi sa isip ko na iwanan na lang si Ada
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Lalo na kapag may mga plano kami na bigla nang nakakalimutan
11:42.3
Pagka tumatalo ng usapan namin from one topic to another
11:46.1
Or kapag naman may biglang gusto siyang gawin out of the blue
11:51.0
Ngunit kahit na naiisip ko na iwan siya, hindi ko ito ginagawa
11:57.6
Bagkos, mas pinipili ko siyang mahalin sa araw-araw
12:03.4
And thankfully, with our support and understanding
12:10.0
Kinakaya naman niyang i-manage ang kondisyon niya
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Lalo pa at sineseryoso na talaga ang kanyang therapy
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Habang pinagmamasdan ko si Ada with her quirks and habits
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Narealize ko na yung ADHD niya is just a small part of who she really is
12:29.9
And I will always choose to love her no matter what
12:34.5
And she will always have
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My undivided attention
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Thank you for watching!
