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marriage, well, you should be open to having children.
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And to be able to educate them.
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That is the whole idea.
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So, una naming usapan, medyo ayaw niya talagang magkana.
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Bakit? Bakit, attorney?
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Well, ayaw. That's it.
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I mean, it's a matter of decision.
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So, sabi ko, tapos na tayo, unless pwede pong pag-isipan mo.
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Oo. So, nung una,
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so, yung first date namin, yung nag, ano na kami,
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nag-terms and conditions na kami,
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kailangan daw, religious ako, araw ako,
01:04.4
he's very religious, araw ako nagsisimba,
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kailangan ko mag-grocery, magiging yan, retreat.
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Pag hindi mo ginawa yan, hindi ka, talagang hindi mo kaya.
01:14.1
For a millennial, that's a very hard adjustment, ha?
01:16.5
Exactly. And then, sabi niya, of course, he wants children.
01:19.0
Ako, for the longest time, ayaw ko magkaroon ng anak.
01:21.8
Gusto ko magpaalaga ng pamangkin, pero ayaw ko ng anak.
01:24.4
So, ako parang, parang hindi ko yata, ayaw ko yata.
01:27.5
So, sabi niya, sige, pero pwede pa rin tayong mag-date.
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Sabi niya, sabi ko, sige, okay lang.
01:32.5
So, second date, sabi ko, ayaw ko talaga.
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Baka hindi ko kaya yung araw-araw na simba.
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But it's very hard for me.
01:39.6
Ayaw kong gawin siya just because sinasabi niya,
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gusto ko sa'king manggalit, gano'n.
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And then, sabi ko, parang ayaw ko talaga magkaroon ng anak.
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Kasi yung responsibility lang ngayon,
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ayaw ko na magtrabaho para magpaaral.
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Alam mo yun, hindi ko nga nabibila yung lahat
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ng gusto ko para sa sarili.
01:55.1
Kasi typical millennial thing, diba?
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Pero sabi ko, ayaw ko.
01:59.0
So, sabi niya, okay, so stop na tayo.
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Sabi ko, okay, stop na tayo.
02:02.4
After two minutes, sabi niya, pwede ba mag-appeal?
02:05.1
So, nag-MR, nag-motion for reconsideration.
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So, sabi ko, o sige, tingnan pa natin.
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So, eventually, nakita ko naman na parang,
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sabi ko, oh, so, yung mga considerations ko
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kung bakit ayaw ko ng anak,
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sabi ko, baka walang, yung father figure ba,
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hindi ko maisip na paano ba,
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siguro kaya ko ayaw.
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Kasi parang hindi ko naman nakita na may possible na tao.
02:26.8
So, sabi ko nga, even sa vows ko,
02:28.6
sabi ko, sobrang taas ng standards ko sa lalaki.
02:31.7
Pero, nung nakita ko na, ah, pwede naman pala,
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meron naman palang someone na kaya maka-abot
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ng ganong standards.
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Parang, okay naman pala, okay naman pala
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na baka okay naman ako magkaroon ng anak.
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Kasi nakita niya rin kung gano'n ako
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ka-motherly dun sa dalawang kong pamangkin.
02:50.8
And then, ayon lang.
02:53.6
Tapos, yung proposal, wala siyang proposal.
02:55.9
Actually, wala siyang proposal.
02:57.5
So, ang nangyari, sabihin ko lang.
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So, one time, we were having breakfast.
03:03.6
And then, I think it was the birthday of the former president,
03:07.2
Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo.
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So, he was texting her.
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Tapos, sabi niya, alam mo, naisip ko maging nina si PGMA.
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And I was like, bakit tayo nag-uusap about nino-nina?
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Hindi ko naman nagpa-propose.
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Sabi niya, pero di ba lagi naman natin pinag-uusapan yung marriage?
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So, pwede na tayo magpakasal.
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So, sabi ko, nasa nyo rin?
03:25.9
So, sabi niya, ha? Kailangan ba nangyari?
03:28.7
Sabi ko, nagtanong ko ba sa parents ko?
03:31.0
Sabi niya, kailangan ba mamahihikan?
03:33.1
Kasi, di ba, nagpaalam na ako mag-date.
03:34.9
Sabi ko, love, iba yun.
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Lalo na, very traditional yung family ko.
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Tsaka sabi ko, over 21 years old.
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Wala ng parental consent.
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So, doon, nag-start.
03:45.9
So, yun, walang proposal.
03:47.3
Pero, eventually, sabi ko, love, mag-propose ka naman.
03:49.6
Para naman, makita ng friends ko.
03:52.5
So, nag-propose ka.
03:54.7
Saan po ang proposal?
03:58.1
It was on my birthday.
03:59.7
Pero, planned yun.
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So, hindi na ako nag-pretend na nag-cry-cry ako sa engagement.
04:04.8
So, I knew from the start, his intentions were genuine.
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And hindi naman niya ako luluhoyin siguro.
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Dahil, kilala naman yung magulang ko.
04:13.0
Kilala, gobernador naman siya ng Batangas.
04:15.3
So, siguro naman, hindi siya ganong klase.
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Hindi po kayo nabigla?
04:21.0
Three months? Kasal agad?
04:22.5
Hindi. Kasi ako, I believe in when you know, you know.
04:25.0
So, ako, parang meron nga ng mga matagal na relationship.
04:29.4
I-relationship, six years, ten years.
04:32.9
I was in a ten, ano, I was in a six-year relationship.
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And it ended eleven years ago.
04:38.3
So, eleven years akong single.
04:39.8
But, from time to time, eh.
04:41.2
Of course, I've been dating.
04:42.8
Pero, wala talaga akong makita ng alpha.
04:44.9
Gusto ko talaga ng alpha male.
04:46.4
And then, when I saw him, nakita ko lahat-lahat ng gusto ko sa lalaki.
04:51.7
Pero, sabi ko, if it's just except the age.
04:55.0
So, ipo-forgo ko yung sasabihin ng tao.
04:59.2
Basta importante, okay kami, okay yung family ko, okay yung core friends ko.
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And I know, may iiba yung mundo ko.
05:06.8
But, because of this love, I hope, I hope it can sustain me sa lahat, everything.
05:14.9
Gov, sa dinami-dami ng abogadang na kilala niyo, bakit po siya?
05:20.2
As a to, hindi ko alam. Siya ang available, eh.
05:25.0
Lagi niya sinasabi yun. Parang, alam mo, lagi kong iniisip kung bakit kita mahal.
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Pero, hindi ko talaga maisip kung bakit.
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Lagi niya sinasabi yun.
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Lagi niya sinasabi ko, love is undefinable.
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To define is to limit.
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Minsan, sabi niya pa sa akin.
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You cannot limit love.
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Hindi ko alam kung bakit patay na patay ako sa iyo.
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Hindi na naman maganda.
05:46.1
No, she's very pretty.
05:48.0
Pero, maganda yun.
05:48.9
Okay ba daw yung beautiful and pretty?
05:50.2
Ah, pag maganda daw, beautiful.
05:52.1
Pag pretty daw, may dating.
05:55.0
Okay na rin yun. Okay na rin yun.
05:56.7
Alam ko, may personality talaga ako.
05:58.6
Kung baga, pwede akong manalaw sa Miss Universe kung personality lang, tsaka audience yun lang.
06:03.9
And she's a beauty.
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And she's funny too.
06:06.3
Yes, and very funny.
06:07.9
Okay, Governor, tell us about the wedding.
06:10.0
Bakit po itong simbahan na to, yung napili niyong simbahan, kung saan kayo magpapakasal?
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Well, you know, I'm the Governor.
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The capital of the province is Batangas City.
06:22.4
And I've been staying here.
06:24.0
In Batangas City, as Governor.
06:29.1
Ako, kung mag-question ako, is not why.
06:33.3
Ang kuha ko lagi, question ko eh, why not?
06:36.4
Kapare sa si Angelica, why not?
06:45.2
Wala namang impediment.
06:46.9
So, in my life, that has always been my attitude, so to speak.
06:56.4
I mean, you need, in life, you need daring.
07:00.3
Of course, you have to deliberate, you have to study.
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A calculated risk.
07:07.0
Well, no, no, no, sabi nga, no risk, no glory.
07:11.6
No gain, if you, no pain, no gain.
07:15.9
So, if you made a mistake, fine.
07:18.6
You carry the consequences.
07:20.4
Because I'm speaking of, since you already mentioned, you have to be daring.
07:23.4
Let's talk about your very daring kiss that went viral last night.
07:28.2
No, kasi sabi ng wedding coordinator.
07:30.6
So, I have to clarify.
07:31.9
Sabi ng wedding coordinator.
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Ano ba yung pinaka-daring?
07:33.5
Ano, what is the most daring?
07:35.2
Sabi ng wedding coordinator, not less than five seconds.
07:39.1
So, sabi niya, wala akong problema sa minimum.
07:41.0
Kailangan ko yung maximum.
07:42.3
Ano ba yung maximum?
07:45.0
So, para lang daw, the usual na parang pag-photo, pag sobrang bilis, di ba?
07:49.3
Parang baka wala makuha yung photographer.
07:51.5
So, ito naman medyo.
07:53.4
Natuwa naman yan.
07:56.3
Anong tumatakbo sa isip niyo yung non-governor at that time?
08:00.2
It's tungkol sa...
08:01.2
Dun nung you may kiss the bride.
08:03.2
Yeah, you may kiss.
08:03.7
It was just being a kisser.
08:04.2
So, I kissed the bride.
08:07.8
Sobrang intense, sir.
08:11.2
I mean, asawa ko siya.
08:14.1
Well, the intensity is dependent, of course, on the person.
08:19.9
So, probably you would say that everything I do,
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I do the best I could.
