'Tao Po': Karylle at Yael Yuzon naniniwalang wala dapat stereotyping ng kasarian sa isang relasyon
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Mitong Pebrero, nag-trending sa social media ang celebrity couple The Sinayel at Karyl Luzon.
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Meron akong hindi nagawa before, so I'm gonna do it now.
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Nag-propose si Yael kay Karyl sa programang It's Showtime, kung saan isa si Karyl sa mga host.
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Hi! Welcome to Love One Another.
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Love One Another.
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At dito, sa tao po, personal kong nabati ang mag-asawa sa kanilang marriage milestone.
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Congratulations sa inyong pag-iisang dibdib.
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Ilan ba beses kailangan mag-iisang dibdib?
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Recommitment of vows. Parang a good check-in with, in our case, with our priest, with our families,
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and a great excuse to pray together.
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Dahil narito tayo sa rehearsal studio ni Yael at ng kanyang banda na Sponge Cola,
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syempre, usapang musika agad ang bungad sa aming kwentuhan.
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Napakadali siguro ninyong nag-click kasi this is your language music.
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Yes and no, but it was I guess like we didn't know what the relationship was in the beginning.
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Yeah, well I didn't know. I thought we were like friends and then parang best friends and then favorite person.
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We really met in the Eraserheads reunion concert.
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It was the second reunion concert.
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Tutal ay nagbabalik tanaw tayo sa pagsisimula ng kanilang relasyon.
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Daanin natin sa quiz kung magkakatugma ang kanilang mga sagot.
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Dahil ang makalimot, mukhang malalagot.
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Saan kayo unang nagkakilala? At ano yung first impression ninyo sa isa't isa?
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Turuan mo nga ako mag-score.
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Dali ako mag-agad.
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Okay, answer is right here.
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Ay, ba't tayo magkaiba?
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Ah, banyo. Ah, okay, okay.
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Mas matanda ng tatlong taon si Karil Keael.
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At ang una nga nilang pagtatagpo sa banyo kung saan ginaganap ang isang children's party.
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I was with my mom. He was still inside his mama's tummies.
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That's our first encounter. It's a meet-cute, that's what the young people call it.
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So, that's why I said, ooh, someone's coming.
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Someone's outside.
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Fast forward to 2009 nang formal silang ipakilala sa isa't isa ni Anjali Valenciano,
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asawa ni Mr. Pure Energy Gary V. sa concert ng Eraserheads.
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I was in denial, I guess.
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Gaano kahaba ang boyfriend-girlfriend relationship bago kayo kinasal?
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Ah, I'm super gonna fail.
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Keael knows everything.
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Three years, four months.
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But he knows some dates.
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Really well. Like, how old is our dog?
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Three years, eleven months, and fourteen days.
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Tandang-tanda pa rin ng dalawa ang ilan sa kanilang first moments together.
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Saan at kailan ang first date?
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At ano ang ginawa sa first date?
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I didn't erase the previous one, but it says,
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she can all you can.
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So, we did a Green Hills hop.
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I'm laking Green Hills. My school was in Obie, Montessori.
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So, I grew up going to the stores.
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So, I showed him, like, my favorite store.
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So, I took him there, which is like, like a childhood happy place.
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That was a fun day.
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Parang field trip, like, trip down memory.
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And then, we had chicken all you can.
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Ay, first kiss? Saan?
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Mabilis siya. Oh, my God. Dapat pareho kayo na sagot siya lang.
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Kaya, kailangan ba saan?
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Magkati-kati ang answer namin.
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Kwento ni Caril, muntik nang hindi mangyari ang first kiss sa kotse.
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Buti na lang, type niya ang pinatugtog na kanta ng magiging asawa.
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So, it's a kotse boy, car, sabi ko.
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Muntik na sana akong umalis at tumakbo.
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Kaya lang, nung narinig ko yung Disney song, sabi ko, baka kakaiba siya.
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Hindi siya, ano, stereotype.
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Kasi, sinong lalaki ang nakikinig sa Disney Princess?
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Kaya lang, CD pa kasi naman.
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CD pa kasi nung time na yun.
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I had CDs of, like, mga Disney soundtracks.
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I'm not sure if this has value for you guys, pero sa akin may value to dahil I love Disney.
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Parang every time I'm in Disneyland, I feel like I'm 80 years old again.
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Bakit ka mahilig sa Disney?
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When I was a kid kasi, my mom would fly sa U.S. kasi my mom's a flight attendant.
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So, pag dumili pa siya sa U.S., ang minsan ang pasalubong niya sa akin, either mga VHS tapes
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or bibigyan niya ako ng mga map ng Disneyland.
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Bubuksan ko yung map, tapatayo ako sa taas ng map, kunyari nandun ako sa loob ng Disneyland.
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So, finally, nung nakapunta na ako, when I was 80 years old,
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parang yun yung isa sa mga pinaka-magical moments of my life.
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We are gonna drive now. We're gonna have fun.
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Ngayong mag-asawa na sila, travel buddies na rin si Yael at Kareel.
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Gassing up before we go down.
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Natuklasan ko rin na struggle is real pala para kay Yael ang bawat alis nila.
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Nung mag-asawa na kayo, ah, sinong mas matagal mag-ayos?
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Okay, like, if it's getting out of the house, it's Yael.
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And I'll always be outside.
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How many hats are you gonna bring to every trip?
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If I'm outside the door na I'll be like, bagal ganito.
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Pero kasi si Kay doesn't like to wait but I have to wait for her. It's weird.
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But it's because you take longer.
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No, it's because you need hats.
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When we travel, she brings hats. Six hats.
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This is true. Except for our last trip because it was impromptu.
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But he surprised me.
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Pero, nag-surprise ako sa kanya na meron akong binao na hat for her. Kasi alam mo, mag-feel bad siya wala siyang hats.
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She likes hats eh. Bagay kasi sa kanya yung hats eh.
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Ang tanong, who takes longer?
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Ikaw. Doon magkipagpakka ng hats eh.
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Matagal siya kasi nag-flex pa siya. Check niya yung abs niya.
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Pagkakas nagka-check na yun, gine-check ko every time.
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Sa kanilang pagsasama, naniniwala si Yael at Kareel na dapat walang stereotyping ng kasarihan sa isang relasyon.
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We don't have a lot of gender roles with each other.
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We don't have gender roles with chores for example.
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And like toys and colors.
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Like I have pink shoes. I don't mind.
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And my nails. Because I just like my hands.
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And the blonde hair.
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And the blonde hair. I'm not sure. Hindi naman gender specific ang blonde hair. Although my pants are from the women's section.
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I guess it helps. Helps open our eyes.
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Isa rin sa non-negotiables ng mag-asawa ay ang musika.
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If there's one thing you illustrate about is that I have to create my own music.
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I'm in the middle of writing him a song.
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Parang you should write your own music. Kasi you're not supposed to borrow someone else's words.
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Wala namang ownership of words eh. But you know, at least make them something from here, not just your throat.
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Parang magnet, opposites atrakika nga sa relasyon ni Yael at Kareel.
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Nang magkadikit, hindi na sila napaghiwalay pa.
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Makagandang bride ni Kareel sa kanyang pribadong kasal ngayong araw.
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As tigmang rakista, hindi na pigilang maiyak ng groom na si Yael Yuzan.
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March 21, 2014, ikinasal ang dalawa sa isang private ceremony sa San Antonio de Padua Church sa Cavite.
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Lessons na gusto niyong i-share na natutunan niyo sa mahabang panahon niyong pagsasama?
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Yael has been like winning in the internet lately because apparently he's a green flag.
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Anyone can make mistakes and it's like a thing that can happen in a relationship.
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Pwede 11 years, 12 years kayo na perfect, tapos biglang one mistake.
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End of the day, it's not a big deal.
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There's gonna be give and take. There's gonna be forgiveness.
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There's gonna be hope na you can bounce back from whatever it is.
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Maganda rin na may mga tao na pwede magsabi sa'yo from time to time ng mga things na kailangan mo marinig.
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We have a lot of really good friends in our circle so we're grateful for that.
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And ates and kuyas that we call for emergencies.
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Very grounded sa reality yung relationship ninyo.
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Para kay Yael at Kareel,
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ipagpasalamat ang lahat ng bagay mula sa maliit hanggang sa malaking biyaya.
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Kung ano ang meron at wala, basta ang mahalaga, silang dalawa ay magkasama.
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A lot of the things happen in degree.
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So parang yun, as much as, yung nga, things are celebrated like the spectacle is celebrated.
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Parang there's a lot of things that happen in the day to day money.
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And you just kind of cherish that role with the punches, celebrate the victories.
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I guess sometimes you'll lose together pero kasama rin yun sa growing together.
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At bago matapos ang aming pintuhan ay nakagawa agad si Yael ng kanta.
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When I wake up, the first thing I do is check if his foot is there.
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And when I feel it, I feel so secure na I'm gonna be able to conquer the another day
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because I have my partner right by my side.
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Gawin mo ng kanta yun. Ganda na, no? Daling isulat.
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It's right here and it's oh so clear.
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Maraming salamat po sa inyong pagtutok sa aming programa.
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Umaasa po kaming muli ninyo kaming patutuloyin sa inyong mga tahanan sa susunod na linggo.
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Ako po si Bernadette Zambrano Aguinaldo at ito ang Tao po.
