Xyriel on calling out body shamers: 'If puwede ko namang ipagtanggol 'yong sarili ko, why not?"
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00:00.2
Siyempre kami nasanay kami sa side, na cute na baby, tapos nung paglabas mo sa Dirty Lynn, nagkagulat ha, parang wow, she is a lady now.
00:09.8
Was that a big challenge for you? Nahirapan ka rin ba to adjust with that na siyempre tingin nila bata tapos biglang became a lady?
00:17.5
Siguro opo, pero for me it's normal. For me sobrang naiintindihan ko po sila kasi mahirap talaga mag-transition as a viewer.
00:24.5
Kasi kahit po tayong celebrities kapag meron tayong pinapanood ng Hollywood or meron tayong pinapanood na local celebrities nung bata,
00:32.3
pag nakita natin sila, hala siya na ba yan? Diba?
00:35.2
Diba po nanonood po tayo dati nung mga reality show ng mga bata or ng mga contest na may mga batang kasali.
00:42.1
Tapos pag nakita natin sila sa isang movie, hala siya yung ano ko dati, yung idol ko dati. Diba?
00:46.5
Parang naiintindihan ko po kung saan sila nanggagaling and nakaka-relate po ako sa kanila.
00:51.2
Kaya sobrang naiintindihan ko po kung paano nila ko tinanggap.
00:54.7
Sa change or sa transformation ko from being young or a little kid to being a lady or being a teen.
01:02.2
And also the big transition also, alam naman natin na our body also changes as we get older. Diba?
01:08.3
Were you ever naka-experienced? Kasi in my case, I think there's something we share similarly.
01:13.6
Is medyo pag medyo malaki yung ating hinaharap ay meron tayong mga naku-mga comments na hindi magaganda,
01:20.0
nababastos tayo minsan. Nangyari ba sa'yo yun?
01:22.1
Yes po. There's always been a double standard.
01:24.6
Na kapag sinuot ko yung sinuot ng isang kaedad ko, pag sa kanya fashionista, pag sa kanya wow elegant,
01:31.8
pero pag sa akin, hala ano nangyari sa batang yan? Hala bakit ganyan na siya manamit?
01:36.8
Hala bakit ganyan niya na i-present yung sarili niya? Parang may double standard just because magkakaiba kami ng body.
01:43.7
We're wearing the exact same thing. Exact same brand, color, fit, pero dahil lang iba yung pagkalapat niya sa katawan ko.
01:53.2
Bila nalang kasalanan ko na bakit yun yung pinili kong suotin.
01:57.5
And I just want to become confident with my own skin.
02:01.5
So, for me, nahirapan po ako dun sa mga close-minded people.
02:07.9
Nahirapan ako na I don't even have to correct them kasi dapat wala akong inoo sa kanila eh.
02:15.9
I don't owe them anything but I owe myself the clarity and the peace of mind that I deserve.
02:22.0
So, if pwede ko namang i-voice out and if pwede ko namang ipagtanggol yung sarili ko, why not?
02:27.8
Why be silenced if I'm fighting for the right thing?
02:31.4
So, parang dun hindi ako natakot na mag-call out, hindi ako natakot na sumagot kasi una-una wala po akong sinabing masama.
02:38.5
Pangalawa, hindi po ako basta sumagot.
02:40.9
I am replying with facts, with polite words, and with things na alam kong kailangan ng sarili ko to defend myself.
02:50.9
So, you mean to say that you're not afraid of the truth?
02:52.0
I mean to say, whenever merong ganong instances, you actually call them out.
02:56.3
You don't keep silent kasi ibang mga tao pinapabayaan, dinidelete yung comment, nagbablock na lang.
03:01.7
What do you do when that happens?
03:03.9
For me, hindi ako yung mag-a-adjust just because they're there.
03:07.7
Kasi magiging rampant lalo yung ganong mindset if hindi natin sila i-call out.
03:12.8
Lalo manonormalize, lalo nilang mapipil na, eh, dati pa naman may ganyan eh.
03:17.6
Kasi walang nag-voice out, kasi wala pong nag-call out.
03:20.8
So, if we can try to stop them in our own way, and if we have the voice and the platform,
03:27.1
we can use it to call them out and to tell them that it's wrong.
03:31.8
That it's not right to do that just because we're public figures doesn't mean we're public property.
03:39.9
Hindi nila kami pagmamayari.
03:41.8
Just because we show ourselves to them doesn't mean they have all the rights to tell everything.
03:48.4
Kasi kung ganun pala, eh, di dapat patas.
03:53.9
Dapat dahil nag-comment sila, then I have also my right to reply kung ganun yung mindset nila, diba?
04:00.1
So, ganun lang po.
04:01.4
If ganun yung tingin nila, then I will fight the same way.
04:04.3
I love how empowered you are.
04:06.3
Thank you so much.
04:06.6
Not everyone is that strong to actually fight that out, diba?
04:10.3
I hate being silenced.
04:12.0
Especially when I have nothing wrong or nothing bad intention.
04:17.0
So, gusto ko po talaga.
04:18.4
Na hanggat tama ako, hindi ako magpapasilence.
04:23.0
And it doesn't also make you change the way you dress just because, diba?
04:26.5
Para kumbaga, what you see is what you get.
04:28.7
I'm not hurting anybody.
04:31.3
May times na gusto ko naka-long sleeves ako.
04:33.6
May times na gusto ko t-shirt.
04:35.2
May times na gusto ko sleeveless or chup.
04:37.7
It's because yun yung nasa mood ko nung araw na yun.
04:40.7
Hindi dahil, hala ba kami sasabihin sila.
04:42.9
Hala masyado na ako nakaganto the past few weeks.
04:46.2
Hindi ako magdadamit sa iniisip nila.
04:48.4
Hindi ako magdadamit ako saan ko nakikita yung sarili ko confident and happy.
04:53.5
And you seem to have like a very strong support system.
04:57.8
Mukhang ang ganda-ganda ng guidance sa'yo.
05:00.1
The way you talk.
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The way you carry yourself.
05:03.4
And that's something that you should be very thankful for.
05:08.2
Kahit na minsan may conflict din kami sa bahay.
05:10.9
Kasi nga sobrang parang yung mindset ko, I always want to, you know,
05:19.5
Gusto kong palaging sabihin yung nasa isip ko.
05:22.3
Pag may nakikita or nafe-feel ako na mali, mamali, pamali.
05:27.3
Parang kahit parents ko, if they have to be called out.
05:32.7
You voice it out.
05:33.4
Opo. I voice it out.
05:34.4
And minsan nagkaka-conflict doon.
05:35.8
Pero kahit nagkaka-problema kami, nagkaka-away or sagutan kami in a normal household,
05:43.2
Kasi gano'n nila ako pinalaki na parang meron akong gantong morals.
05:48.4
Meron akong gantong principle.
05:50.0
Meron akong gantong manners.
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And masaya lahat ng tao sa paligid ko na ganto ako, ganto yung kinalabasan ng life ko.
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Dahil ganto nila ako pinalaki.
05:59.4
Ang ganda naman noon.
06:00.7
And sorry na just 20, diba?
06:02.6
Parang hindi 20 years.
06:03.9
So doon kausap ko.
